Overcoming Writer’s Block
There’s an unmistakable moment for every writer: sitting before a blank page, feeling equal parts excitement and uncertainty, a need for overcoming writer’s block. You may have your favorite pen or keyboard ready and ideas swirling in your mind, but somehow, starting that first sentence feels overwhelming. It’s not the act of publishing that’s intimidating—it’s simply beginning, making that initial mark, and facing the fear of the blank page.
Ready to Begin Your Next Piece but…
Is the dream of writing your next story or article finally calling you to your desk? You’ve imagined the words and phrases you want to use—maybe while juggling other responsibilities. You want to honor your creative impulse as you prepare, so you gather inspiration and jot down notes or outlines on the side. Still, even after knowing your process, you find it difficult to break through the hesitation and type that first word.
Blank Page Overwhelm
Starting a new writing project can feel like staring up at a sheer cliff. The possibilities are endless, and yet the pressure to craft something meaningful can be paralyzing. You want to choose the right topic, select the perfect tone, and let your unique voice shine through. But how do you move past that initial block and let your words flow? The overwhelm is real.
Writing in “Chill”
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to approach your blank page with ease, in a “chill” state of mind? Picture yourself beginning each new piece with confidence, trusting your instincts and embracing the unknown. You’d love to brush aside the doubt, knowing your creativity will lead the way.
The Fear of the Blank Page
I’m here to tell you: no matter how daunting that blank page looks, you can move past the hesitation and write something beautiful. I was once the least likely person to take that first step, let alone call myself a writer. If someone as unlikely as me can start writing, so can you.
I was in the same place as you – that place of having a fear of the first sentence. I am a writer and a mental health educator. As a writer, I struggled with “writer’s block,” also known as the “blank page syndrome.” It’s an inability to get started and get the words from your brain onto the page. For a writer, it’s about translating ideas into words on their chosen medium.
Combating the Fear of Getting Started
Because of this “fear,” I did a lot of reading about how to deal with it. I read book like Art and Fear, The Artist’s Way, Affirmations for Artists and other resources. But it wasn’t until I read Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by the Eat, Pray, Love author Elizabeth Gilbert that I finally had a breakthrough. In Big Magic…, Gilbert offers a new way to confront fear. Instead of trying to ignore it or get over it or get rid of it, she suggests we accept and acknowledge fear and “travel with it” [my quotations] without giving it any control. I loved this idea.
Previously, much of the literature about dealing with fear suggested ignoring it or trying to “get over it.” I appreciated Gilbert’s fresh recommendation to not ignore it or try to get over it but to acknowledge fear. She suggests not necessarily embracing fear but to at least recognize it’s always there. In an oft repeated metaphorical vignette about a car ride, Gilbert says to take fear with you. This is what resounded with me that I could do things with fear by my side along for the ride without letting it take control.
A Way to Take Fear with You
But for me the concept wasn’t enough. I wanted an actual “something” to take with me. This “something” would represent my fear. It would remind me that fear is always there. I can acknowledge it but keep it tamped down and under control. Enter phearnik! The Courage Buddy.
phearnik! is a little rag-doll-like plush. The name phearnik! (pronounced fear-nick) means “little fear.” Small enough to take anywhere in a purse or backpack, the little purple plush reminds me that fear is always with me. I just don’t need to let it take control. Plus, a having a little fear helps us pay attention. Thus, helping to keep us safe.
The Courage Buddy opened up my ability to breakthrough my fear of the blank page and more readily start creating. Having the quirky plush by my side reminds me a little fear about what’s going on the page is okay. But it also reminds me not to let it take over and shut me down.
Having the Courage Buddy by my side helped me break through my writer’s block and made it easier to start creating. The quirky little plush serves as a reminder that it’s perfectly normal to feel a bit of fear about what I’m about to write. But more importantly, it reminds me not to let that fear take over or stop me from putting words on the page.
A phearnik!® Courage Buddy™: Supporting Every Writer with Encouragement
I aim to provide every writer facing writer’s block challenges with a phearnik! Courage Buddy. This cheerful plush serves as a gentle reminder that success begins by keeping fears in perspective and taking the first step beyond one’s comfort zone.
A prototype of phearnik! has been created, and I am currently awaiting a sample from the toy manufacturer. Upon completion, I intend to offer the plush for purchase in my Etsy shop, so individuals can acquire their own phearnik! Courage Buddy.
I’m also considering providing the plush free of charge to artists, writers, entrepreneurs, and both children and adults facing fears who need support. To achieve this, I may seek funding through crowdfunding campaigns or grants.
Let’s Stay Connected
I designed the Courage Buddy as a tool for myself and for other writers who sometimes find themselves frozen by fear before they even begin. If you ever hesitate before starting a new piece of writing, this little plush could be the gentle nudge you need.
If this playful idea appeals to you and you’re looking for a bit of motivation to get your creative energy flowing, I invite you to stay connected with me and get the free Fear Less Toolkit!
